This non profit organization for youth effected by HIV hepatitis C and other STI’s is a wealth of information and has one hell of a team that is there for you and will educate and teach you whatever you need to know on any sexual subject. Gay straight bi whatever it’s open honest and not judgemental.
How many times will I be judged on false pretenses? There are blogs and people who have no idea what is going on around them, yet they can judge and assume about me or others without conviction. It seems as if most gay men are in the dark about HIV and most other STI’s. If people are looking for someone to blame or judge, how about you take a long hard look in the mirror. You are fooling yourself if you think your random sexual partners are being honest with you. What you need to accept is that you must treat everyone even your bf as if they are positive. That is the only way to truly protect yourself. Blaming and becoming a victim is all within your power to prevent. If you want to stop using condoms with the man you love, get tested together. Once tested and clean then you can truly become close (that is if you trust them and they aren’t back fucking others). How can you tell? Well there are a few signs. One is that they get very upset and jealous mad that you are talking with other guys or rag on you that your going to cheat. It’s called projection. I’ve been there and it’s an all consuming encompassing feeling mostly of guilt but ultimately fear. Fear that your partner will find out and fear that they will Do the same to you. This is wrong. You owe it to the safety and well being of your partner to be honest. Trust me it’s not worth the consequence!
As if I can keep up with my own life let alone writing about it!! Also I am known as being a horrible speller! But if you can look past this and see what I see you will be able to see my view through pictures rants and opinions. I may not always be right but I am passionate. That has to count for something!